Relational Leadership

Yesterday I was talking to a fellow Assistant Principal about how we could continue to improve ourselves.  He said something real interesting that his Principal recently shared with him.  "Smile more."  We both feel that we are relational leaders, but we both have been accused of having a look of "don't talk to me" by students and teachers.  As someone who feels that get along great with students and teachers, it brought me back to times in the hallway when my body language has screamed "stay away" and these students and teachers have let me know.  As a relational leader, I have to be willing to improve in this area.  

Walking in the front door at 7:15 am - smile 

Helping students in the arrival line - smile more

Asking a student to hurry to class - smile more

Talking to a teacher about their lesson plans - smile more

At lunch duty picking up trash - smile more

At dismissal patiently waiting on students to get to their cars - smile more

It was a great reminder and visual as we finish up this last month of school (last day is May 21).  I was thankful this colleague was willing  to share with me something that had also been told to him.

Make wise decisions

See you soon

Bray out